It was 51 degrees on Saturday here in Maine and it made everyone flock to the outdoors. We visited one of many favorite spots on the ocean near Freeport, home of L.L. Bean. It is a state park called Wolfe’s Neck. We always take the short trail right to the rocky shore, where there are plenty of opportunities to climb on rocks, search for periwinkles, and watch the osprey in the summertime. This time, a young seal was stranded, waiting for the tide to come back so that it could rejoin its family. As we walked and talked among the many others that were jumping at the chance to be outdoors, I was made aware how we are once again going to have to reiterate the rules of nature to the children. Here are a few that were obvious on Saturday.

• Outside voices are only truly appropriate if you are alone outside. Though their enthusiasm for nature is wonderful, I noticed that the children’s decibel level was still too great for such close proximity with other park visitors and wildlife.
• Don’t disturb potential habitats. A few rocks or shells thrown in the water is fine, but tide pools and dens should be left untouched.
• Observe personal or family space. My children are all extremely social and kept trying their best to attach themselves to other families with children.
• Leave wildlife alone. Although I am all for observing animals in nature, they are still wild creatures and should be considered unreliable. My kids wanted so badly to get a closer look at that seal. They could not understand why we didn’t just let them go pet it.
• Be respectful of nature. I like my children to think of nature as their elders – along in years, full of wisdom, and a bit delicate.

What are some things that you emphasize to your children when you venture out for walks in the woods or strolls by the water or visits to the park?

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